A Guide To Being Alone

I’ve deliberately used the word alone, as it normally has negative connotations – solitary, lonely or even deserted. However, that’s just one way (and a dumb way) of looking at it. The notion that true happiness and the next step in adulthood relies on finding a partner is not only vicious, but it’s proper bullshit….

What Men Wished Women Knew About Sex…

I’m forever shouting about how communication is key to a healthy relationship and will determine how happy you are in your sex life. Some of you don’t seem to be hearing me though. If you can’t express what you want in the bedroom with your partner then I think you’re too immature to be having…

Contraception And Sex

Listen, if we’re going to discuss sex on ellemacuk.com then I need to be an advocate for safety. So today, I’m discussing a couple of the different methods some readers use in order to keep themselves safe. Some lovely ladies filled me in on their methods and it’s all here for you to read. –…

Let’s Talk About Sex Baby

Ok so I’m just going to dive straight into something that is often viewed as a taboo subject to talk about … sex. Go grab some snacks cause this is about to get juicy.  These anonymously answered questions are based around pure bodily desire rather than the emotional side of sex as I thought I would…

A to Z Of Date Night Ideas

It’s been pretty much a month since valentine’s day, but that doesn’t mean the excitement of doing something fun and creative with your partner should stop. And for those of you who are tired of using dating apps or dating sites and cheesy chat up lines, these are some great first date ideas also. I…